Sagittarius women are well known for their casual and often, temperamental stance towards love. It’s very easy for Sagittarius women, to turn “off” their feelings for someone, when they feel like they’re done with them and no longer want to give them any attention.
So, if the feelings of a Sagittarius woman are so mercurial yet so stubborn, is all hope lost?
Not exactly, here’s what can you do to turn the tide in your favor:
Well, the first thing to do when your Sagittarius woman ignores you is to remember to be patient throughout this whole procedure, because it’s likely to get long and grueling. Please wait for her to reach out at first, and if there’s really no correspondence: Reach out to her and ask her what’s wrong. Keep doing it and try being understanding. Lastly, no matter what, don’t pick fights or be immature -especially by ignoring her back or being standoffish.
What to do when a Sagittarius woman ignores you?
People under the Sagittarius sign aren’t (generally) big on commitment.
They are also very adamant about acting on their feelings.
So, if a Sagittarius woman was deeply in love with a person one day, she’s as likely to be out of it and done with them-the other. If you’re that certain someone, you’re sure to feel this sudden shift in the feelings of your significant other.
So what can you do and what should you avoid? Well, look for the following points.
Be patient and wait for some time:
This is the most important step in this whole situation.
Things are bound to get unbearable at one point or the other, we’ve already established that by hinting at the stubbornness of the Sagittarius woman when it comes to her feelings.
Therefore, before doing anything else, you’ll have to make up your mind about being patient -no matter what happens- throughout the whole procedure.
Wait for her to contact you.
So, mostly you might not be part of the equation at all. Sagittarius likes space. So make sure you don’t get overwhelmed and start chasing after the answers. Just give it some time and keep calm.
Yes, obviously be there for her but wait for her to reach out to you instead. She must need time and space, both, to sort out her feelings -as she may have a lot of things going on in her life- so being persistent or tireless will only complicate things.
Reach out yourself after enough time:
However, let’s say it’s been enough time without her trying to have any correspondence with you. You believe you’ve given her more than enough space and now, you’re getting worried.
Well, it’s time to put in some effort and show her that while you’re not clingy -you still care enough.
Reach out to her yourself and even if you don’t get any response, keep trying. It’s all about timing, after all -now is yours’ to be persistent.
Now you still have to stay subtle here though. Don’t make yourself look needy. Just show that you are concerned enough for her.
Be very easygoing. And keep things light. You may simply start the convo here by just saying “Hey”.
Ask her what’s wrong:
However, if all your efforts go to waste and you haven’t managed to receive a proper response out of her, it is only customary and natural that you be straightforward.
You’ve done everything you can using subtlety, and she’s been given ample time to make any decisions she wants to.
It’s time to directly ask her what is wrong, as her behavior isn’t fair on you anymore. This is something that a Sagittarius woman needs to realize, in order for her to finally open up to you.
Before you confront her directly, however, there are some things you can do to soften her up and prevent the confrontation entirely:
- Saying “Sorry”:
This is something that you must do when you know or think that you’re in the wrong. However, you should do it even when you don’t have an inkling of what you’ve done or are sure you haven’t done anything. Here’s the reason why this step is important: The fact that you’re apologizing may make the Sagittarius feel guilty about ignoring for, without any valid reason. Chances are, they’ll end up second guessing themselves and stop ignoring you.
- Be understanding:
Try to be empathetic and put yourself in her place. No matter her actions or words (or rather, a lack thereof), try to feel out the situation and see what’s really bothering. Be extra careful and try to show her you understand her she’s going through and you’re willing to let her be. This will also make her reevaluate her harsh attitude towards you and eventually result in it being ended.
- Try to do things for her:
This is good for both when you’re in the wrong and even when you’re not. Get her flowers, take care of her little wants, make her laugh. Be the perfect significant other! In either situation, it will soften up the Sagittarius woman towards you and: a) make her forgive you faster and / or b) make her second guess her behavior and her feelings. If you’re really so perfect, why is she done with you? Should she, even?
Things you should avoid saying to a Sagittarius woman:
Now, as there are things that turn the tide in your favor and make a Sagittarius woman think better of you or stop ignoring you –there are also things that turn the tide against you and complicate things to the point of no return.
Here are some things you should stay away from when a Sagittarius woman ignores you:
It’s very natural that you get ticked off when you get ignored for absolutely no obvious reason.
A lot of questions may plague you and you probably want them answered: What is my fault? What’s the point of this immature behavior? Did something bad happen? How long will this go on? Are we done for?
Very natural questions, but they have the potential to trigger off very bad responses in a Sagittarius woman and start a fight.
This is why being patient is so important.
Acting like you don’t care:
Getting met with silent treatment all of sudden is enough to induce frustration in anyone.
Many of us, in such a situation, may be tempted to show the other person their childish behavior isn’t having any effect on us and hence, make them discontinue it.
This works in most cases, however, a Sagittarius is an opposite.
Standoffish, cold behavior will only cement in a Sagittarius woman’s mind that it was the right decision to withdraw from and be done with you.
You don’t want their love anymore, so why give it?
Ignoring her back:
This one may be the most tempting option.
As the old saying goes:
As you sow, so shall you reap.
Or in layman’s terms: Tit for tat.
If you start getting ignored for (seemingly) inexplicable reasons by your Sagittarius lover, you might decide to do the same to them.
I mean, two can play the game, right? A fine tactic for getting a response, however…..only if applied to others.
In the case of a Sagittarius woman, it will just add fuel to the fire and cement their decision of ignoring you for the foreseeable future.
Being too demanding:
Being ignored, naturally makes one insecure about their value in the other person’s eyes.
Consequently, they might start being needier, fishing to see if the other person still cares about them or not.
You might react the same, nevertheless, it is best to avoid being too demanding, as it is a big turn-off for Sagittarius women.
They might infer this behavior as you only caring about what you want and not their bad mood. This will, obviously further escalate them falling “out” of love with you.
Lashing out/getting personal:
This is also something that you have to avoid. Again, getting angry or irritated at being ignored is a reflex action.
However, you have to learn to control that anger, especially when you’re talking things out with her or even just a normal conversation.
Try not to let your emotions take control and make you lash out. Obviously, a Sagittarius woman is, right then, going through a very sensitive period and anything you say even with the mild harshness will be taken personally.
Never level accusations at her or be rude e.g., by pointing out her flaws. This will just make them even more upset and ready to end things with you.
The thing to understand here is that the Sagittarius woman will obviously look at how you’re reacting to her behavior.
Judging upon it, they will decide whether to end things or not. So, you have to make sure to not give them any reasons to.
What does it mean when a Sagittarius ignores you?
We’ve told you what to do when she ignores you, but if you are wondering why she’s acting so, here are some possibilities.
She needs some space:
The first reason that is highly possible is that she might just need some space more than anything else. Every human being requires space at some point in time. So, if your Sagittarius woman needs space, then it is okay, she has probably a lot of things going on that she needs to work out.
Now, this might not be too common for Sagittarius women, but you need to keep this in mind. If she’s getting bored of you, then this means that there’s no spark left in the relationship. You might need to try some new things to get her attention back.
She’s hurt (and / or upset):
Another reason as to why a Sagittarius might ignore you is because she feels hurt or upset. Something you did made her feel bad, and you’re unaware of it. If you are oblivious to what is wrong, then keep searching for the answer because your Sagittarius woman sure won’t tell you.
She’s over you:
Lastly, she might be at a stage where she is completely done with you. Sagittarius women aren’t good with breakups, so this can only happen under extreme cases. So, beware when your woman starts to ignore you because you don’t want to be the guy who got dumped by a Sagittarius.
Sagittarius women in relationships:
The Sagittarius woman is an adventurer, an eternally enthusiastic and active individual who won’t willingly stop dead in her tracks to follow a routine or a boring schedule.
When in a relationship, the Sagittarius woman will want her partner to follow in her footsteps, to show the same enthusiasm and craving to explore the world.
You will not convince her to share her life with you if the prospects are dull and uninteresting.
Take her on a journey around the world, and she’ll feel ecstatic. Intimately, you will have the time of your life with how open-minded and action-oriented he is.
When things are going great and she’s happy, you won’t find a more attractive and exciting partner. She does everything with double intensity and passion, and her natural traits are amplified even more.
In conclusion, Sagittarius women may be the most passionate lovers -but they’re also the most unpredictable and reserved when it comes to expressing their feelings.
Therefore, it is in your best interests to keep an eye out for any changes in their behavior towards you, as you never know whether the reason behind it is just some primary need for space or the fact that you’re about to be dumped.
You also have to remember that you must never give in to your frustrations or anger when this point comes in your relationship.
Show your Sagittarius woman that you’re simultaneously willing to give them space and put in an effort to take care of them.
That’s the only way you can change their mind, eventually.