How To Make A Virgo Man To Commit To You?

How To Make A Virgo Man To Commit To You?: Looking for slight adjustments in your relationship to get your Virgo man fall head over heels for you?

Worry not!

We got your concern covered.

The key to a Virgo man’s heart is, attention, love, care, respect, good communication, loyalty, organized lifestyle, and above all patience.

So if you plan on winning his heart and are wondering how to make him commit, all that has been mentioned above is all that you need.  We’ll explain how!

Having Virgo as a partner is a blessing as they are of a mutable personality but you also need to make some amends as per their taste.

Virgos happen to have some traits unique to them so they are what one can describe as an acquired taste to be treasured.

You will also find them to be perfectionists and thereby, also want their partners to be ideal ones too.

In the start you may find them to be hard to get because of their cautious nature. They are just a little bit serious about matters of their heart and don’t wanna be hasty in making commitments.

But, once you get past this you will be ever grateful for working through it all. So, here are a few tips on

Don’t Force a decision on Him:

Giving your man Space

If you have a Virgo as a partner, one thing you need to know about him is that he takes time with the important matters of his life. So, you can not really rush him.

So, be cool. A few tips that are helpful are playing it coy. So don’t force him to take a direct or an imminent decision.

Try being like, water, I.e be flexible enough. Be what he wants you to be then slowly but surely make amends to that.

To Virgos what matters is, how well can they handle the things that matter to them and if they will last or not, so rushing into a commitment isn’t their cup of tea.

You know how if we wait for someone to show up for dinner when they are late. So make sure to be punctual.

Seeing you still being at the table shows them how you really care enough to wait for them. Take it one step at a time, wait for how he responds to your suggestions and most importantly remember “all good things come to those who wait”.

Keep Yourself Organized:

Staying organized

A Virgo guy likes what one can describe as attention to fine detail.

No! it does not mean he’s a controlling man or something. He’s attracted to an intellect based lifestyle. So, he finds organized people to be very attractive.

You have to be clean and fresh around him.

Also, having a clean and tidy apartment is a huge “yes” for him.They are also highly organized and want to see the same in their partners.

Small things matter to them like plates have to be taken back to the kitchen sink after dinner and not be left on the table.

It does not mean they are some strict guys, they just fashion a disciplined lifestyle.

An easy tip to meet such standards is to follow the rule of putting everything where it belongs and doing everything on time.

Understand Their Boundaries:

Couple having adventure

It may seem to be in contrast to what a relationship is, but it isn’t. A Virgo has set rules in their lives about how things work and how much they impact on them and vice versa.

Virgos have boundaries and you won’t be able to work through those unless you imitate his behavior here.

The key to building a strong relationship with a virgo is to have initial borders  and boundaries but not so rigid that they do you harm.

For a Virgo, a boundary is an all green that provides him with a safety and assurance about his personal things being his alone.

To get him  to share these simultaneously as you share yours is a tad bit tricky but not impossible especially because being a Virgo he is mutable.

Now that you have borders, demolish them one by one when sharing something or having an intimate moment and mount slight pressures on him each time for him to do the same and in no time you will have yourself a partner you know better than yourself.

Give Respect To Earn Respect:

Couple happy kiss

Remember when as children we learn to be respectful to everyone and are told how it’s vital for us to be so. It is somewhat also for a Virgo guy.

Virgos are unique in that they want respect in their relationship especially from their significant other.

It may seem a bit odd but to them it’s a real turn on. Casual as one sees a relationship to be is simply not something a Virgo would go after.

They are usually conservative and rely on people with good manners and habits to see if they can be trusted or not.

For a Virgo, manners and chivalry are the salt of the relationship.

Avoid doing too much when it comes to your Appearance:

Too much makeup

Being a perfectionist, Virgos like to see decency and finesse in the people and things surrounding them.

They don’t like flashy dressing nor a rough appearance.

A huge “yes” for  them is a strong woman and like any perfectionist they want their lady to be a “queen” and not to be so much into the habits of a “teenager”.

So, you may wanna avoid doing too much when it comes to appearance. Dress simple and clean , don’t over do the makeup and wear a light and a subtle perfume.

Equally important for them is that you keep your nails and hair done properly.

So rather than overdoing everything in hopes of getting a “Woah! you look spectacular”, remind yourself that he’s your significant other, your looks matter to him but he also doesn’t want you to be too tired from jumping through too many hoops and then be not attentive to him.

So just dress to be simple, strong yet attractive.

Be Reliable and Consistent:

Helpful couple

Any relationship demands to be counted on when some time of need occurs.

Some zodiac signs enjoy a little bit of chase every now and then and  to compete for appreciation but this isn’t true for Virgos.

Virgos are people who like consistency and reliability very much in a person.

Being reliable requires that one be consistent in what he does and for a relationship with Virgo it means that they are not neglected.

They want their time to be theirs only and not be divided up for other tasks of your daily life.  Don’t worry it just sounds as if a Virgo is needy, in essence he only wants you to be with him, physically and  mentally.

A smart way to do this is to specify the time when you guys will hang out, chat or do stuff together. Make sure nothing interrupts you during this time.

So specify time and when it’s that time try to quiet down everything else and be completely his.

Learn To Communicate Well:

Couples understanding

Virgos are governed by mercury, the planet of communication.

Moreover, communication is the only way one gets to know and understand others. Virgos being shy won’t be the first one to make contact even if they like you so don’t be hesitant to take the initiative.

Once you are in a relationship with a virgo you need it to have a sound and strong communication.

And a good communication should not only be verbal but should also involve your body language and expressions.

One of the clues to the fact that your man is interested and wants a commitment is when he seeks to be in touch with you constantly.

The need for him to communicate constantly is because he seeks stability through his better half.

To him whatever happens in his life needs to be told to his lover and vice versa.

Requiring constant communication is a good thing because when some plans change you can notify him of those and you will find him to be understanding.

Moreover, such acts of telling even the smallest things help keep doubt away. Good Communication will boost your trustworthiness and will definitely make your virgo man commit very soon.

Stay Completely Honest:

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As children we learn that honesty is the best policy and never to break someone’s trust.

The same is the case for a Virgo man, he is the most honest of guys out there and in some cases way too straight forward to the extent that it can be hurtful.

With a Virgo you don’t have to be worried about him being deceptive or anything.The things he values most in himself and craves for in his partner are honesty and trust.

Virgos are insecure about themselves in one way or the other like everyone else.

The only way to get him to commit is to show him by action that you are honest with him and that you can be trusted with the keys to his heart.

They are also in the habit of overthinking when it comes to trust.

You should have good communication with him about all matters, whether they be small or big, dull or intimate and deal with utmost sincerity and credibility when answering his queries.

Keep him Interested:

When a Guy calls You Sweetie

Keeping anyone interested can be a tedious job. The soul of any relationship is interest. If it dies out ,the relationship won’t last.

For a Virgo what keeps him interested are intellectual things like current affairs and so on.

For progressing in a relationship with a Virgo you need to find out his interest and schedule play dates and meetups that sync with the events that he is interested or likes to talk about.

Because Virgos, shy and deliberate as they may be like to open up when they are talking about their interest.

Think of it like getting someone drunk before the party, once he starts talking about his interests you can really get to know  him and then keep in mind what he wants and then plan future events.

Moreover, a golden rule of keeping anyone interested for any amount of time is to follow the cat and string theory, don’t tell them everything in just one sentence or in the same instance.

Give them a little taste for it and keep them coming back for more.

Summing Up:

Commitment, to have and to hold, like forever, is really something everyone desires in a relationship. Here are a few points to remember that will help you get the man of your dreams.

A relationship has two people in it so don’t stress out.

What we mean by this is that with a Virgo you have the best partner because he is caring and observant,the best blend there can be.

So all you need to do is avoid pushing him into things and don’t let him think too much about what you said rather clarify so, in essence, have good and clear communication.

Be reliable for him. It’s a big turn on for him  because it shows him that you are independent.

Most importantly be truthful to him and this will help you win his heart in no time.

Written By Isabella

Isabella Martinez, your go-to relationship advisor and creator of Life Falcon. I love diving into love, life, and star signs, sharing helpful tips and interesting thoughts with you.

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