So how to get prepared for marriage mentally? Getting married is a time when couples finally think about settling down, they imagine the happily ever after thing (thanks to Disney for that, mostly).

Well, to be honest, married life is something more than just a “happily ever after.”

And if you are the one who believes in it, I would recommend you to stop watching Disney movies throughout the day and get the getting married life thingy.

It is beyond those 2 and a half hour animation films.

How to get prepared for marriage mentally?

I am here to paint a picture for you, a true picture that will allow you to be prepared for your marriage mentally.

It’s time to get serious.

I don’t mean to scare you out of your married life.

But I know that If you love her/him enough, it’s going to be enough for you to answer “how to get prepared for marriage mentally.”

However, if you already understand that married life or wedding is a deeper relationship, apart from just sex or a happily ever after; kudos to you.

If you don’t know anything about “what it’s like being married” and you are diving in it because your girlfriend said; “I don’t see a ring on this finger,” then trust me, you still have time to run!

The Feeling of First Love goes away:

We have heard this brutal truth so many times and it does seem obvious as well. Hollywood isn’t happening in real life, so yes, there will be times when you will lose the spark to your love life. You will feel drained and tired and a lot more feelings will flush in, apart from love!

Does that make a good enough reason to say your married life goodbye?

Trust me, you will be ending your marriage every 2nd year like this and probably by the time you are 60, you will maybe have like 10 ex-wives and ex-husbands.

Just know one thing; the spark will diminish sometimes but that doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner anymore. Giving each other some space and understanding that married life is not a Hollywood movie is a good thing to consider before getting married.

Attraction won’t Last Forever:

Let’s face the reality that you won’t always be attracted towards your partner. Even if he/she is doing something which turns you on; sometimes that trick won’t work even.

And you might want to slap him or her for trying it over and over again. You just need to understand it once; if he or she ain’t getting attracted, leave the effort.

Physical attraction is given a lot of weight by our society and that has changed a lot about marriages.

However, if you understand the fact that you can’t be attracted by someone all the time and that doesn’t mean your love for them has faded; you will have a successful married life.

Show Love when you Don’t Want to:

Being Married is a bumpy ride.

Things won’t go smoothly. Rocks and bumps are part of this journey.

There are times when your partner irritates the hell out of you because obviously, something is irritating them as well.

In such cases, you really do wish that you become the princess from Tangled and bag a frypan in their face but you simply can’t.

You need to show that you love them and you care for them and you will be with them through the tough time.

This might seem hard but it always stays as a big positive factor on your side.

Does your Marriage need work or is it Doomed?

So the new generation hates working on simply anything.

We are such lazy heads, that working properly on an assignment, for consecutive days, becomes too hard for us, right?

So who has time to work on a marriage?

Better is to tag it as DOOMED and get divorce papers ready; you are a free bird again!

That is not the right way.

Sometimes your married life needs some work and all you have to do is, gulp that stinky glass of pride down your throat and save it.

Don’t tag it as doomed, until you haven’t tried to make it work.

Children WILL add stress to your Marriage:

You might find this weird but it is a brutal truth that having children does add stress to your married life.

It is like an extra cherry on top of the cake.

The feeling of becoming parents is wonderful but you have to put in a lot of effort as well.

And these efforts take so much of your time that you forget why you got married in the first place.

So it is important to keep the spark alive and doesn’t forget that you also have a husband in the other room, who get so pissed of waiting for you that you end up fighting.


Married life is a journey and you don’t have a destination for it. And the journey is full of ups and downs and bumps.

But at the same time, it is wonderful as well.

Having someone beside you through thick and thin is nothing less than a blessing.

Just know the fact that you won’t get a road filled with roses in the name of marriage; you need to face the hardships to make it work.

Those amazing and attractive old couples, sitting in parks have done it and so can you.

Just don’t hide from reality; face it, embrace it and make it work guys.

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