4 Dark Lessons Of Life (The Sooner You Know The Better)

dark life lessons
Life never comes with an instruction package to tell you what and when to do. So, it’s all out in the open – you live and you learn. You learn life lessons both the easier and the harder ways. The sooner you know dark life lessons the better. But being a good loser as well as a good winner basically helps out during your journey a tad bit more. There are occasions when our elders hand over jewels in the name of advice but we don’t bother making the most of them. And that is when we learn the same thing through the dark life lessons as life decides to teach us. Our generation believes in experiencing everything for themselves rather than listening to what the wiser have to tell. Life is the best teacher, no doubt. But if you learn the following dark life lessons, make sure you tie them with your heart and mind for the rest of your life so that you can live to the fullest without regrets and fears. Consider the following Dark Life Lessons: 1-Be Wise Enough to...

Change Your Life Through These 4 Principles of Motivation

Principles of Motivation
Principles of Motivation: Motivation is nothing then a secret weapon that shoots in your inner self to improve yourself or to make yourself useful in this industrious world. Motivation is nothing like an oven-ready meal, it’s just a wave that suddenly blink’s in your mind and you start looking at the world differently. It’s kind of like a maze in which you exactly don’t know that what you are going to do but still you are finding the way to get through this and complete it. It’s just because of that entire motivational person present inside you which is forcing you to do that. It helps you in pushing through the hardest times and winning when losing seems to be the only option available. Now the question arises that from where is this motivation coming through? Basically, it can come from an external source or may be an internal one. In my opinion, it’s not compulsory that you get your motivation from life experiences. You can get it through your surroundings or from your friend who is a lot more determined...

5 Common Mistakes People Do To Ruin Their Life

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No human being is born perfect in this world. There are so many mistakes people make. We all tend to make mistakes in certain stages of life. We have to go through so many embarrassing moments in life just because of our own mistakes but it turns into a complete issue when we fail to realize them or accept them. It turns into a real mess when we do not become aware of our shortcomings and instead we blame others for our mistakes. There are two types of mistakes that people make. The mistakes which makes a good person out of you and the mistakes which only makes you a worse person. The mistakes that we realize, accept and learn from are the ones which makes us a better person. They are the ones that turn into true blessings for us. But the ones that ruin our life and we never really know it are the common mistakes you may or may not be sure about. We all dive into a pool of mistakes daily and we aren’t even aware of them. But the underlying...

8 Ways That Teach: How To Get That First Love Feeling Again

First Love Feeling
Nothing compares to that feeling of something burning inside you when love walks out of your life. Even if there was nothing left to save, the hurt remains. It kills us from inside, chokes us and makes us feel as if we are dying. Why? Well, only because we lose that first love feeling. To love and to be loved, is to feel the sun from both sides-David Viscot But we don’t; we survive through it and it all depends on how we manage to that. We are not what we become, we are what we choose to become. Breakups hurt. It is really tough to actually love all over again when you have been hurt immensely. It seems impossible. We all know that feel because we have either been there or maybe some of you might be going through it right now. It seems as if we never trusted anyone ever again in context with the word "love." We think that loving anyone doesn’t remain an option in our lives. This does happen; I am not denying it at all. Disappointment leads to giving...

6 Problem Solving Techniques You Must Learn Today

Problem Solving Techniques
Problem Solving Techniques: Life is so filled with surprises and more than half of these surprises are our daily routine problems. Whenever you are finally free from issues, life comes in and pops in another set of problems for you. So in all, we cannot skip the problems in our life. What we can do is to make ourselves trained to solving those problems in the best manner and don’t allow other things in our life to be affected by them. They say it right: Life is not about finding a shelter to stay dry from rain…it is about learning to dance in it. And you can only dance in the rain of problems if you have the perfect problem-solving skills. These are important in life. You are not going to solve all the problems of your life like a pro if you can solve your algebra equations. Practical life problems are much tougher than them. So here are some ways or to be exact, here are 6 ways to enhance your problem-solving skills.   Don’t Become the Victim: Whenever a problem occurs, we become...

4 Ways To Become Emotionally Strong

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Becoming emotionally strong is hard but achievable. Have you heard of the famous saying? Nothing can dull your light when you shine from within. There are all sorts of days. Sometimes life seems so insolent and then there are days when it seems one of the best things that could have ever happened to you. You cannot help yourself when you feel broken and you don’t find yourself in the right position. Some things break you and you do feel stranded. Then there are days when you look up at the sky, see the stars shining and motivation swipes up and down within you. Does it vary from situation to situation? Yes, it does, but at the end, motivation is what we all need to become an emotionally strong person. Being an emotionally strong person does not mean to not weep, not love or not care about anything in this world. It is all about having a balance amongst all the emotions and do face all the phases with strength. So how can you become emotionally strong? Well, there isn’t any secret recipe to it but I can certainly...

what is happiness in life? – 4 Must Read Life Lessons To Stay Happy

what is happiness in life
Everybody thinks of being happy in life, in somewhat a different way. If you lose both of your legs (God forbid that ever happens to anyone in life) what do you think will make you happier: "Getting those legs back?" or "a billion dollars?" People synthesize happiness/being happy in life, in many different ways and most of them think that they will be happy if they become famous, rich, have exotic cars, fancy homes and the list goes on and on, and there is no end to this. I have learned a lot on happiness and I think my all life lessons on being happy can all be summarized in the way of how positive I think. “There is nothing good or bad, but thinking makes it so” William Shakespeare Money and fame, these are the two things in life which we think we need to run after in order to be happy. When a child is born, her unhappy mother doesn’t say that she’s perfect, instead she says “I am going to make you perfect, you will go into Harvard medical School one day and you...